3 - Being Yourself

"Never change who you are so that other people will like you. Just be yourself and the right people will love you just for being you."

Being yourself is not hard to do, but in some case there are people who pretend to be someone or just doing what the other person told to them. But now we will talk about on how to being youself

Being yourself is kind of serious matter for anyone, ok now as you can see some people pretend to be not who they are and that is a bad way of making a social talk or being with friends cause if you are not acting who you are people around you may will be shocked if you get something on your side that they didn't know because they did'nt know that side or the true act of yours that you done like for example you always be good to your friends but in the true of you you are a moody person.

Don't act on someone that you don't like but you did to make some friends or anything else, be yourself, I know somebody find it hard to do, being yourself is the way to see and find friends who accepts who you are abnd like the way you are. In some problems mostly people who have a different attitudes they make friends on people who they like to pretend and they pretend what their friends is, that is a major problem when it comes to some difficult situations the side of who you are mostly goes out and some of your friends reaction will be shocked like in some easy situations you just talk to them but when it comes to difficult situations you just shouted on who you are and you just saying foul words that your friends didn't know on that side.

Now a days most girl have a crush on a guy and if they know what characteristics is their crush want they will pretend or do what their crush want on a girl so that if their crush now see the characteristics you are acting so their maybe a possibility of attracting that crush of yours. At all just be yourself being youself is not to just cry out there because your crush want on a girl characteristics that you didn't have, don't be stupid friend just wait for the right time, the right guy for you, the person who will like you of being yourself, the true you, and that person has the characteristics of a guy that you want just pray to God and tell him the guy you want and the guy who will love you back on being who you are.

Believe in yourself my friend be storng have faith in you and to God, do not lose hope, don't let your dreams be dreams, make it now, do it now, Just do it! I hope you learn something here from my blog :)

2 - My Bestfriend

"Best friends are hard to find because the very best one is already mine"

My best friend is just like me but I will not be like this if She did not affected me, I met her in our school service she is so noisy when she talks with her other friend they are shouting at each other the girl is her best friend at our 1st year, she is kind of a mental patient that is already recovered, when we are together we make some funny things at school like having a tour around our school in the break times, or playing paper volleyball at our room even if it is not allowed in our school, our bonding is singing with other friends and mostly singing a sentimental songs, were kind of bitter not because we’re are single but I don't know were just bitter.

I remember when she had a crush on a higher year when we are in 3rd year high school, she met the guy in the convenient store beside our school, then the story go, she is buying there when suddenly the guy go there to and because she is a kind of crazy she just whispered to the handsome guy saying "Hi babe!" and she didn't expect that the guy will reply to her saying "Hi" and she suddenly get surprised with the respond of the guy, in the next day when I was in our room waiting for the classes she arrived early and get she is like to have a news for me with a excitement on her, then she run towards me and suddenly shouted like she's so fluttered with someone then I ask her what happened to her she say the story and she start to have a crush on that guy because he is a handsome and a kind person, the guy is one my teammate in our school volleyball team, and when she saw the guy she is like going to die of giddiness always. When she has a crush on that guy I am her number one supporter and I make all to have a connection between her on the guy.

I remember too when I have a crush, she is my number one supporter when I have a crush, like when my crush is having a talk with her she always consider me in their every topic and make me always a example and she share a lot of my traits about me on who am I, she is the one who make close to my crush so that there is connection between me and on my crush, or when my crush passes by us she always say hi to my crush and smile while looking at me like she is teasing me with my crush.

She is Angelica my best friend, she is my sister in school like she's my young sister even that I don't have a sibling. She and my other friends the tropang potchie is the same as our attitude, we are nice don't worry we’re just crazy and kind, have a good attitude/personality.

If someone will hurt my best friend I will do anything to make some revenge to that person like what she is doing same as me, Yes best friend are hard to find because the very best one is already mine.

1 - How to get out of falling in love?

"To fall in love

is awfully simple

but to fall out of love

is simply awful."

                Going out of falling in love? sure! you want now to get out of falling in love with that friend from somewhere you have met? now that is your choice, there are so many ways to get out in that problem.

                   First of all you should not see him/her at the moment so that you are not seeing him/her at the moment, try this at least 3 months or 2 months if this months is not a effective time for you add a couple of months at some cases others need at least a whole year of not seeing him/her and no communication, and try to do some busy things whole year like playing some sports or work and etc. so that you don't have much time to think about that person. 

                 Second is you should have other inspirational things like God, you will pray to him always and pray to forget him/her and ask some things that will help you to get out the feelings you have on him/her, or pets like dog I think you will get busy on taking your pet dog, like a shitzu. 

                Third you should have some time to go out in some places like mall buy something else, or see some new things out there, eat in a restaurant, and anything that you can do there. Go to some amusement parks, eat there, riding in a roller coaster or watch some movies that are not related to love, like horror, comedy, enchanted and some movies that are not related on what situation you are right now. Third ask some advice to your friends, family, God and others on how you will get out from that person. 

               Fourth hangout with some of your friends, like go to mountain hiking, go to some places like amusement with them enjoy with them, going to out some places like going to a festival with your friends, or if you have a money go to some other countries like Japan in the Tokyo, America, on some other places that you can enjoy with your friends. Don't go to some places that are romantic like Paris and other romantic places cause it may just affect your feelings and you feel of missing that person that you are getting in, and have patience

               Fifth but not the last, you should have control with yourself as soon as possible, you should always think not to think of him/her, always pray to God to help you in your problem, always think positive, be strong, anyway you can still see him/her but always remember to control yourself to not get out your blushes on him/her or you should think that he/she is just your friend while talking to him/her, don't be shy with him/her or else when he/she realize it he/she will get to know your feeling to him/her and in some other situations they will gonna make some distance to you or he/she will avoid you or in some case he/she will still be with you and he/she will not think of the feelings you have for her/him.

               Now I think if you this ways you just get your feeling to him/her out and that's a good news, if nothing happens then you should do something. The most effective is to talk with God always and remember that there is no problem in life that not able to solve, I hope you learn something, Thank You. :)