1 - How to get out of falling in love?

"To fall in love

is awfully simple

but to fall out of love

is simply awful."

                Going out of falling in love? sure! you want now to get out of falling in love with that friend from somewhere you have met? now that is your choice, there are so many ways to get out in that problem.

                   First of all you should not see him/her at the moment so that you are not seeing him/her at the moment, try this at least 3 months or 2 months if this months is not a effective time for you add a couple of months at some cases others need at least a whole year of not seeing him/her and no communication, and try to do some busy things whole year like playing some sports or work and etc. so that you don't have much time to think about that person. 

                 Second is you should have other inspirational things like God, you will pray to him always and pray to forget him/her and ask some things that will help you to get out the feelings you have on him/her, or pets like dog I think you will get busy on taking your pet dog, like a shitzu. 

                Third you should have some time to go out in some places like mall buy something else, or see some new things out there, eat in a restaurant, and anything that you can do there. Go to some amusement parks, eat there, riding in a roller coaster or watch some movies that are not related to love, like horror, comedy, enchanted and some movies that are not related on what situation you are right now. Third ask some advice to your friends, family, God and others on how you will get out from that person. 

               Fourth hangout with some of your friends, like go to mountain hiking, go to some places like amusement with them enjoy with them, going to out some places like going to a festival with your friends, or if you have a money go to some other countries like Japan in the Tokyo, America, on some other places that you can enjoy with your friends. Don't go to some places that are romantic like Paris and other romantic places cause it may just affect your feelings and you feel of missing that person that you are getting in, and have patience

               Fifth but not the last, you should have control with yourself as soon as possible, you should always think not to think of him/her, always pray to God to help you in your problem, always think positive, be strong, anyway you can still see him/her but always remember to control yourself to not get out your blushes on him/her or you should think that he/she is just your friend while talking to him/her, don't be shy with him/her or else when he/she realize it he/she will get to know your feeling to him/her and in some other situations they will gonna make some distance to you or he/she will avoid you or in some case he/she will still be with you and he/she will not think of the feelings you have for her/him.

               Now I think if you this ways you just get your feeling to him/her out and that's a good news, if nothing happens then you should do something. The most effective is to talk with God always and remember that there is no problem in life that not able to solve, I hope you learn something, Thank You. :)