7 - How to move on

"It hurts to let go, but sometimes it hurts more to hold on"

              "Moving on is hard to do, but we need to do it for our own good too." How can we move on from that person? Should we need to totally erase him/her to our life? or we should just need to make some distance and make our self busy. Loving that person so much more than yourself and letting him/her go. The times that you and her/him spent together, when your heart flutters, the time that he/she's your everything, and now you think on him/her once a while and realize for awhile, and you can't believe it for a while that your story with him/her has been ended. Even just for a moment, you want to lean on someone and cry, the day that you wouldn't need anything else. Perhaps you will forget him/her little by little, however when you think of the times with her/him, it still makes you smile, the times you were so happy when you see him/her, the moments that he/she is your greatest strength in this world. And now your thinking if she/he miss you. And in your memories she/he will remain somewhere in your memory like that will never forget that she/he has been part of your life thanks to her/him. And now you will be moving on from that memories and will start into a new world, a new beginning. And here are now the tips on how you will be moving on from that person and will start a new beginning.

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     - Let out all the feelings you have for that person let go.

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     - You should allow yourself to think and reflect on yourself and think that you will gonna do this and forget all the memories and pain from him/her, and make a new beginning, a new life and for your future too. 

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     - If you have a social network account, you should not go or seek at their accounts, you should stop doing this.

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     - Throw away all his/her memories, delete all his/her picture in your tablet and phone don't leave anything.

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     - List all his/her bad things that you see from that person

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     - Don't go to some lovely places and to places that he/she goes.

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     - Don't listen to some love songs for a while that you can relate, it might affect you. and distract you.

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     - If there is a moment that you will gonna be passing by him/her, try not to look at him/her, try to think something that will distract you from that critical moment and try to walk fast.

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     - Talk to a friend or to family member that you can trust and can understand you.

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     - Don't be bitter. :)

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     - Remember that you are not alone, God, family, friends and some maybe pets are always there for you, always remember that.

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     - Think that he/she/s not the only boy/girl in the world, there is someone there that's much more deserving to have you and you to have.

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     - Always think positive and be happy, don't let yourself to cry, be sad always and just thinking all the memories that have been done forever, stand up always think positive that you can do it don't let your dreams be dreams, always smile.

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     - Met new friends, don't let your self to stay at that person, find the right person or maybe one of your friends is your soulmate.

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      - You should ask your classmates, your troops, and some of your family member who tease you about that person to stop talking about that person or stop making that person a topic anymore and say to them to move on.

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   - Be busy like doing some activities like sports, doing some part time jobs, get to a workshop, read some books, do some challenging activities like hiking and etc, hangout with friends go to malls, amusement parks, but don't go to places such as romantic places or parks.

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     - Last but not the least after all, show to her/him that you can live without them, show that you are now better without him/her, show that you don't need him/her anyway, show that you move on already, show that you are a big loss to him/her, show that you are the best of all and now his/her the one that got away, show that you now find yourself and realize that he/she is just a lesson to you an example.

                Yeah moving on is hard to do, but we need to do it for our own good too. There is so many things to do on how to move on, and now you will start a new beginning. You are now a new and ready again to fall inlove or not yet ready. Into the new world now. Show that you can live happily without them and not alone but free. Life goes on continue your life don't waste anything anymore. And always remember that there is someone out there looking out for you too, the deserving and maybe its your soulmate. Live happily ever after.